Wednesday, August 17, 2011

I need advice on what to do about a friend who has serious trust issues?

I feel too old to be on here asking stupid questions, but I really need advice. I am currently seeing someone who I care for with all my heart. When we first started seeing each other I sent some dirty pics of myself to an old friend and he went through my phone and found them. He should have never violated my privacy like that, especially so early in our relationship, but nonetheless, I don't deny that what I did was wrong. Both of us come from really screwed up past relationships (our exes cheated a lot) so we already have trust issues, but I feel like because I screwed up in the beginning that he will forever hold it over my head. He gives mixed signals. He told me when he found out about the pictures that we could never be in a relationship, but then he is always with me, and we miss each other when apart. My divorce is not quite finalized (only a few more weeks to go), and he said that is a lot of the issue that he has with me (it puts him and me in a morally awkward position). I guess my concern is he is constantly trying to find out all about my past and I feel some things are better left alone. If he can't trust me now what will it be like in 5 years? Im sure that a lot of people are going to want to post judgmental comments about how I shouldn't even be in a serious relationship when my divorce isn't even finalized, but I don't want judgment from anyone. I just need advice on what to do. Do you stay with someone that you are totally in love with knowing that they have a lot of insecurities and will likely always dig through your past or do you move on and weather the heartache. Another question I have is as I mentioned he tries to find out a lot about my past and I don't tell him for fear that I will lose him, but should I just come clean and give him the opportunity to decide if I am worth having a future with, or do I continue to hide stuff?

Would you be interested in seeing this movie starring Vin Diesel, Jason Statham, and Bruce Willis?

It's called Bald but Not Battered. A story of three men who try to find out how to deal with hair loss.

Can ya help(please, please, please) i posted this question yesterday and nobody answered?

It sounds as if she likes you. Don't be in too much of a hurry - it sounds as if you're doing everything right. Be patient and just keep on getting to know her, and if she really does like you there will come an opportunity to ask her out, or see her home or something. It sounds as if she's a nice girl so don't rush her.

Which of these two computers is better?

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A house centipede has invaded my dorm room? How shall I deal with this pest?

Unprovoked, the tresper started crawling on my stuff and then disappeared behind the furniture. If he reappears shall I show him mercy or shall I take his invasion as a declaration of war and respond accordingly?

How does my fantasy lineup look?

Well to be honest not bad lol Looks similar to my team cept I have a better outfield but looks good I'm in a 12 team h2h.

Does Bronco Stadium in Boise, Idaho serve beer at football games?

No, "It's not Bronco Stadium's or Boise State's fault they don't sell beer. ... The SBOE (State Board of Education) won't permit sales in the regular-joe portion of the stadium.