Do women avoid after menopause ?

yes,Im afraid it happens. it did to me, I am not interested in now, but I still love my husband, we still kiss and have lots of cuddles,I also have a medical condition which makes very sore for me, but that aside I lost my drive with the menopause, if you are asking about your wife,I imagine she might be the same, just because she is not into ,does not mean she does not love you, hope this helps