Cramps, headaches, nausea?

I am starting my menopause, and I have fibroid tumors. I am having cramps so bad. And headaches. No OTC seems to work, especially for the headaches. I put heating pads on my stomach, but I am not always where I can do that. The heat does help some. It is making me sick to my stomach, also. I have been to the Dr. He said that my fibroids are causing more pain. I was always able to control my cramps before I started "the change" I thought the "Golden Years" were supposed to be good! LOL Any suggestions?! I am not bleeding, really. Just spotting.